do we have a buggy server?

I am automatically "commiting suicide" every time i get off the driver seat from jeep while driving, it's like jeep hit me but it didn't Maybe that ghost from Libya 3 is back + Bots are moving like this:

Can anyone confirm this restarting Realism last night?

Note(to myself): reinstalled the Server Manager on 3rd April 2016

I did nothing last night.

We had some discussion on skype about the problems we experience and I thought I'd share some insights which may be wrong:

-The server experiencing CPU overload which crashes the server. (so far we don't know by which process) It seems unlikely this is caused by the number of players on the server.

-possible desync problem between server and client which seems to be on server side and causing client CTD's (all connected clients at same time) and possibly the "no weapons" bug. This last bug is not the same for every player at the same time, some will have it and some not, if a client reconnects it is usually solved and also when the map is reloaded. This suggests that sometimes some clients and server lose sync, but not all. (due to CPU overload, some getting server instructions but some not?). So most likely a network/internet connection issue on server side.

-Sometimes we get the "connection problem" message which will either go away or will eventually kick you from the server but without crashing the client. Also most likely a network/internet connection issue on server side but I guess it can also be caused by the clients connection and/or latency.

I also did a test by removing the scripts folder from my game to make sure the server was not calling any script functions on the client side. Scripts are ONLY needed on the server, when playing an internet game the client does not use the scripts.

@ThomasTailor93 yes we also talked about this, we are waiting for BYTM (Steff) to hopefully discuss this with our hosting (he is our administrator).
We don't know all the ins and outs of this, I thought and hoped CPU usage is maybe reserved and shielded per VPS but I guess that can depend on configuration and/or contract type (or maybe a technical impossibilty, I don't know).
Thank you for your suggestion.